For parents

Your decree, off your mind.

Decreely reads your decree, judgment or custody order and runs it for both of you: the schedule, school holidays, expenses, reminders and the hard conversations. You stop carrying the whole thing in your head. Here's everything it does.

SETUP · ONCE

Upload your orders. Decreely turns them into rules.

Other apps hand you an empty calendar to fill in. Decreely builds it, and every other rule in your orders, for you.

1. Add your documents

Your decree, judgment or custody order, plus the parenting plan and any later orders. Take phone photos page by page, choose a PDF, or forward an email to your private Decreely address. If a page is blurry, Decreely tells you which one to retake.

2. It reads them twice

Decreely reads everything twice, independently, compares the two reads and re-reads any clause where they differ. Then it test-runs two years of your calendar and money before you see a thing. A single read can miss a word like "except." Two can't both miss it.

3. Review your rules

Parenting time, holidays and birthdays, expenses and support, notice and travel, communication. Each rule sits beside the page and paragraph it came from. Check every rule, or accept them all and review only the unclear ones.

4. Unclear rules wait for both of you

Does summer camp count as an "extracurricular activity"? If your orders don't say, Decreely won't guess. It asks you both how to handle it, and if you disagree, that's for your attorneys.

5. Your co-parent accepts the same rules

Nothing goes live until you've both accepted the same results, so you are always working from one version of the truth. If they suggest a fix, you'll see the page it came from. Not hearing back? Start in solo mode today.

6. Add the school year

Decreely pulls your district's published calendar, finds every break and early release, and lays your holiday split on top. It checks for revisions every week, so if the district adds a day, your schedule moves with it.

EVERY DAY

"Nothing needs you until Friday."

That's what your home screen says most days. Decreely keeps track of what's next, so you don't have to look it up or ask.

Next exchange
Fri, Oct 16 · 5:00 pm
Kids go to Jordan · Library front entrance · You drive
Coming up
Fall break with you
Oct 19 to 23 · school calendar, ¶4.4
Dental share sent to Jordan
$84.00 · due Nov 9 · waiting
Thanksgiving is with you
Odd year, ¶4.2 · reminder Nov 11

One shared calendar

Regular time, holidays, birthdays, summer and school breaks, all from your orders. Propose a swap right from the calendar.

Exchanges without texts

Pin the exact exchange spot so "the library" means the same door to both of you. Tap "I've arrived" or "running 20 minutes late." Nothing to type.

Call time

If your plan sets phone or video time, both of you get the same reminder. Keep a private log of calls that happened or didn't.

Caregivers

Add sitters and grandparents from a photo of their contact card. If your plan gives your co-parent first offer for longer stretches, Decreely prompts you to offer it first.

Changes seen months ahead

When a child's birthday changes the schedule, like summer time stepping up at 12, you both hear about it months in advance, with the paragraph.

Share without sharing

Give a partner, grandparent or sitter the schedule in Google, Apple or Outlook Calendar. They never see messages, money or your orders.

MONEY

Snap the receipt. Decreely handles the rest.

No spreadsheets, no Venmo screenshots as proof, no chasing. Every dollar is tied to the clause that requires it.

It reads the bill

Provider, child, date, what insurance paid and what's left. Decreely applies your orders' split and due date. Uninsured dental at 60/40, due in 30 days? Done.

Request and pay in one place

Your co-parent sees the amount, the receipt and the exact clause, then approves and pays. Bank transfers are free. Money moves through a licensed processor.

Recurring costs, automatic

With Autopilot Plus, agreed recurring costs like soccer dues pay themselves, up to a limit you set.

Support, tracked

Child support paid through the state is tracked and verified against the state's payment history. Where your orders allow direct payment, Decreely can send it on time every month.

When a payment is late

Two calm options: one more friendly reminder, or a records package for your attorney. Decreely keeps the record clean so the next step is easy.

Tax returns, exchanged

If your plan requires swapping returns, Decreely reminds you both, releases each one only when both are in or the deadline passes, and records who shared when.

MESSAGES

The heat comes out before you read it.

When your co-parent sends a message, Decreely shows you what they're actually asking first, what your orders say about it, and calm ways to answer.

What Jordan is askingTone: heated

To take Leo to his soccer tournament on Sat, Oct 24, picking him up that morning.

Oct 24 is during your fall break time (¶4.4). A change needs both of you to agree (¶3.6).

"Hi Jordan, yes, Leo can go to the tournament on Saturday, Oct 24. I'll bring him to the field by 8:30 am, and you can bring him back to me by 6:00 pm. Please confirm by Thursday so I can plan the day. Thanks."
Brief · Informative · Friendly · Firm

Replies written to lower the temperature

Drafts follow BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm), a method from the High Conflict Institute, with the answer in the first line and one clear ask with a date. You can always change the words.

You always send it

Decreely never sends a written message for you. Routine items like "running late" can go with one tap, and you choose what, if anything, it sends on its own.

Ask Decreely

"Can I take the kids to Mexico in June?" Get the answer from your own orders, with the clause, plus what you need to do, and a draft travel notice ready to review.

Urgent means urgent

ER visits, serious injuries, school emergencies and a missing child break through quiet hours. Nothing else can be marked urgent, so the alert never becomes a pressure tactic.

NOTIFICATIONS

Nothing slips. Nothing nags.

Every dated obligation in your orders gets a reminder, for both of you, at the same time. Missed deadlines are one of the most common sources of disputes, so deadline reminders can't be turned off. You choose how early.

  • Exchanges, holidays, birthdays, expenses due, support, notices
  • A Sunday digest of the week ahead: what needs you, and what's handled
  • Quiet hours you set, with urgent notices still getting through
  • No case details on your lock screen
DECREELYnow
Exchange tomorrow, 5:00 pm
Maya and Leo go to Jordan · Library front entrance · You drive
DECREELY8:00 am
Thanksgiving is with you this year
Wed, Nov 25 at school release to Sun 6:00 pm · Parenting Plan ¶4.2
DECREELYYesterday
Jordan paid $84.00
Leo's dental share, on time · arriving in your bank by Friday

THE KIDS

One card per child, the same in both homes

When both homes see the same information, nobody can say they weren't told. Every edit shows who made it and when.

Health

Doctors, allergies and medications. Upload the insurance summary and card photos, and Decreely fills in the plan, deductible and copays for both of you.

School

Screenshot the school portal. Decreely reads the class schedule, teachers, dismissal times and pickup rules. It never contacts the school for you.

Activities

Forward the registration email. Practices and games land on both calendars, and the fee is split by your orders if you've both agreed to the activity.

RECORDS AND PRIVACY

Your record builds itself. It stays yours.

Court-ready when you need it

Every request, payment, exchange and message is time-stamped. Build a certified package formatted for your court, with the clauses cited, for your attorney.

What we read

Your court orders and the documents you add. Nothing else on your phone. Decreely never uses your location.

How it's kept

Encrypted and stored to legal-record standards. Never used to train AI. Export everything as ZIP, PDF or CSV any time.

More than one case?

Each case keeps its own orders, co-parent, records and payments. Nothing crosses between them. Only you see the combined calendar.

En español

Screens, reminders and drafts in Spanish, while your co-parent keeps English. The original text of every message stays in the record.

Not a lawyer

Decreely follows the orders you both accept and flags anything it can't read clearly. Interpreting them is for the court and your attorneys.

See what Decreely takes off your plate

Start with a free trial of full Autopilot. Your rules, calendar and records stay even if you don't subscribe.

Start your free trial See pricing
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For parents

Your decree, off your mind.

Decreely reads your decree, judgment or custody order and runs it for both of you: the schedule, school holidays, expenses, reminders and the hard conversations. Here's everything it does.

Start your free trial

SETUP · ONCE

Upload your orders. Decreely turns them into rules.

Other apps hand you an empty calendar to fill in. Decreely builds it, and every other rule in your orders, for you.

  1. 1
    Add your documents

    Phone photos, a PDF, or forward an email to your private Decreely address. Blurry page? It tells you which to retake.

  2. 2
    It reads them twice

    Two independent reads, compared clause by clause, then a two-year test run of your calendar and money. Two reads can't both miss "except."

  3. 3
    Review your rules

    Each rule sits beside the page and paragraph it came from. Check every one, or review only the unclear ones.

  4. 4
    Unclear rules wait for both of you

    If your orders don't say, Decreely won't guess. It asks you both.

  5. 5
    Your co-parent accepts the same rules

    One version of the truth. Not hearing back? Start in solo mode today.

  6. 6
    Add the school year

    Your district calendar, every break and early release, with your holiday split on top, checked weekly.

EVERY DAY

"Nothing needs you until Friday."

That's what your home screen says most days.

Next exchange

Fri, Oct 16 · 5:00 pm

Kids go to Jordan · Library front entrance · You drive

Fall break with you
Oct 19 to 23 · school calendar, ¶4.4
Dental share sent to Jordan
$84.00 · due Nov 9 · waiting
Thanksgiving is with you
Odd year, ¶4.2 · reminder Nov 11

One shared calendar

Regular time, holidays, birthdays, summer and school breaks, all from your orders. Propose a swap from the calendar.

Exchanges without texts

Pin the exact spot. Tap "I've arrived" or "running 20 minutes late." Nothing to type.

Call time

If your plan sets phone or video time, you both get the same reminder.

Caregivers

Add sitters and grandparents. Decreely prompts first-offer when your plan requires it.

Changes seen months ahead

Age-based step-ups surface months early, with the paragraph.

Share without sharing

Give a partner or sitter the schedule in Google, Apple or Outlook Calendar. Nothing else.

MONEY

Snap the receipt. Decreely handles the rest.

No spreadsheets, no Venmo screenshots, no chasing. Every dollar is tied to the clause that requires it.

It reads the bill

Provider, child, date, what insurance paid. Your split and due date applied. Uninsured dental at 60/40, due in 30 days? Done.

Request and pay in one place

Your co-parent sees the amount, receipt and clause, then pays. Bank transfers are free.

Recurring costs, automatic

With Autopilot Plus, agreed costs like soccer dues pay themselves, up to your limit.

Support, tracked

State-paid support verified against the state's history. Direct payment sent on time where allowed.

When a payment is late

One friendly reminder, or a records package for your attorney.

Tax returns, exchanged

Released only when both are in or the deadline passes, with who shared when.

MESSAGES

The heat comes out before you read it.

Decreely shows you what your co-parent is actually asking, what your orders say, and calm ways to answer.

What Jordan is askingTone: heated

To take Leo to his soccer tournament on Sat, Oct 24, picking him up that morning.

Oct 24 is during your fall break time (¶4.4). A change needs both of you to agree (¶3.6).

Yes, swapSuggest otherNo
"Hi Jordan, yes, Leo can go to the tournament on Saturday, Oct 24. I'll bring him to the field by 8:30 am, and you can bring him back to me by 6:00 pm. Please confirm by Thursday so I can plan the day. Thanks."

Brief · Informative · Friendly · Firm

Replies written to lower the temperature

BIFF drafts with the answer in the first line and one clear ask with a date.

You always send it

Decreely never sends a written message for you. Routine items can go with one tap.

Ask Decreely

"Can I take the kids to Mexico in June?" The answer from your orders, with the clause and a draft notice.

Urgent means urgent

ER visits and emergencies break through quiet hours. Nothing else can be marked urgent.

THE KIDS

One card per child, the same in both homes

Every edit shows who made it and when.

Health

Doctors, allergies, medications and insurance details, filled in from a photo of the card.

School

Screenshot the portal. Decreely reads schedules, teachers and pickup rules.

Activities

Forward the registration email. Games land on both calendars and agreed fees are split.

RECORDS AND PRIVACY

Your record builds itself. It stays yours.

Court-ready when you need it

Every request, payment, exchange and message, time-stamped, with a certified package for your attorney.

What we read

Your court orders and the documents you add. Never your location.

How it's kept

Encrypted, stored to legal-record standards, never used to train AI. Export any time.

More than one case?

Each case stays separate. Only you see the combined calendar.

En español

Screens, reminders and drafts in Spanish while your co-parent keeps English.

Not a lawyer

Decreely follows the orders you both accept. Interpreting them is for the court and your attorneys.

See what Decreely takes off your plate

Start with a free trial of full Autopilot. Your rules, calendar and records stay even if you don't subscribe.

Start your free trialSee pricing